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  • I Pray Your Today is Better than Yesterday

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    If you’ve read my book, “So He Hurt You, Now What?” – Messages of Hope for a Hurting Sister you’ll find that I start most messages out with, “I pray your today is better than yesterday.”

    So I start this post out with that same message.

    How was your yesterday? It may have been terrible and it may have been the worst day of your life. I sympathize with you, but I also know that it won’t last. Suffering is but for a moment ( it just feels like forever)

    I have good news!

    Your today can definitely be better if you want it to be. People, circumstances and life “interruptions” do not have to dictate how your day will be. Yes, we see what’s going on around us, but we choose to not let it overtake us. Don’t let it consume you.

    Step Back

    Have you prayed? Things you can’t control, our Father in heaven controls. Give it to him and keep it moving. Yes, it may hurt and it may even be directed at you. Don’t waste your time trying to prove your point or convince folks about something they’ve already made their mind up about. You’ll  get frustrated and they get to see you sweat. Don’t do it. Are they worth it?

    Give it to HIM and get on with your day. You have much to do!

    So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.
    I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. –     Isaiah 41:10

    My Sister – I pray your today is better than yesterday.

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  • Book Marketing Tips: Create a Google Alert

    so_he_hurt_you_now_whatWriting your future best seller is not the part of the book process that will break your back; getting the much needed  exposure to encourage readers to purchase your book, is the part that you must dedicate time, preparation and  planning . My first book, So He Cheated, Now What ? was  a learning experience. I did almost everything WRONG when it came to marketing. I’m not ashamed to tell you that. I believe we live and learn. When you know better, you should do better.  I’m  trying to do better this go round.

    You write it, publish it  and then they’ll come is a LIE from the pit of hell !

    This go around I have tried to be a bit more strategic and it’s paying off. My new release, “So He Hurt You, Now What? – Messages of Hope for my Hurting Sister” was released on February 10, 2014  and the response has been tremendous. I will not lie, it’s been work , but I wouldn’t trade it for anything! If you’re releasing your first book, make sure you take your vitamins, pray for strength and get ready to put in the work.

    I’ve decided to share some tips that have worked for me, things I want to do and things that I will NEVER  do again. (more…)

  • So He Hurt You, Now What? – Messages of Hope for a Hurting Sister

    so he hurt you now what Imagine being with someone for years and suddenly it’s over. Your marriage has ended, your boyfriend walked away or you have decided to separate. You’re not sure what happened and you’re at a total loss for words. You’re kinda numb right now.

    Imagine not being able to function or get out of bed.

    Some of us don’t have to imagine. We  are currently inside or have lived this horrific nightmare.

    My new book, So He Hurt You, Now What? – Messages of Hope for a Hurting Sister speaks directly to that hurting sister.

    Here me LOUD and CLEAR — This is NOT the end of you.  (more…)