Nicole Cleveland and Breathe Again Magazine

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  • When Friends Cheat

     

    Heated argument
    A few weeks back a friend shared that her spouse cheated.This couple have been together forever and wear the love for each other on their sleeves,cheeks , elbows and neck.  I say that because you can see the love they have for each other. It’s not hidden.

    So what happened?

    When I found out I was taken back but not shocked. Why? Because I have learned “Never Say Never” . What appears to be one thing can be something totally different when the doors are shut and the curtains are closed. I know this all too well.

    Did she stay? Yes. They love each other and have decided to work it out. Good for them. That’s their business.

    This is a sticky situation.
    How would you handle the news if you were close to both the husband and the wife. Too many times people take sides, even when that person is wrong.

    Have you ever been in this dilemma? I would love to know how you handled it.
    Stay Blessed

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  • Should We Forgive ?

    Forgiveness is key after an affair in your relationship.
    It’s impossible to move on with unforgiveness.

    When we don’t forgive, we are setting ourselves up to be miserable.

    Oh, let me tell you, my initial reaction to the affair in my marriage had nothing to do with forgiveness.
    I was hurt, therefore I wanted him to hurt.

    Nicole wanted revenge !

    This is a human reaction ( or at least it was mine ).
    These were emotions and feelings I could not get past without prayer. As I began to reflect on my transgressions
    and how thankful I was for my sins being forgiven, it was much easier to forgive. My faith tells me that I must forgive.
    If we don’t forgive, we will not be forgiven. It works two ways.

    “forgive us of our trespasses, as we forgive those whe tresspass against us”

    That is part of The Lords Prayer.

    We recite this, but do we mean it?

    It’s easier to forgive when we we know we have been forgiven.

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