Nicole Cleveland and Breathe Again Magazine

Tag: Women

  • So He Hurt You, Now What? – Messages of Hope for a Hurting Sister

    so he hurt you now what Imagine being with someone for years and suddenly it’s over. Your marriage has ended, your boyfriend walked away or you have decided to separate. You’re not sure what happened and you’re at a total loss for words. You’re kinda numb right now.

    Imagine not being able to function or get out of bed.

    Some of us don’t have to imagine. We  are currently inside or have lived this horrific nightmare.

    My new book, So He Hurt You, Now What? – Messages of Hope for a Hurting Sister speaks directly to that hurting sister.

    Here me LOUD and CLEAR — This is NOT the end of you.  (more…)

  • Breathe Again – Why the Butterfly & Healing from Grief

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     This past year has been one of the worst years of my life and one that I’ve learned the greatest lessons.

    Healing from Grief is an individual experience.

    There were times I didn’t want to get out of bed and times I just didn’t know who I was. I would look in the mirror and see myself, but didn’t feel like myself.

    I would encourage and minister to others and have to take those same words and encourage myself.

    So many tears…..so much pain this year.

    I grieved the loss of so many things – People,Places & Things.  Things I lost and things I never had. Someone said “you can’t miss what you never had.” But that’s a lie.

    Let me explain.

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  • Bless a Couple Dealing With the Aftermath of Infidelity

    Turn on the news and I can promise you there will be a leading story on infidelity.

    Politicians, athletes, movie stars,church leaders, high profile individuals  and the list goes on and on.

    I cringe each time I read,see or here the reports. Infidelity ( or whatever you want to call it – cheating,having an affair, jump off, side piece etc… ) is not going away. It will continue to happen, just as we continue to need food to survive.We know it’s going on , but what are we doing to deal with the aftermath? It’s no longer something we don’t talk about. It must be dealt with. Especially for those that want to rebuild their marriage. You can not sweep it under the rug,wishing it will just go away.  It does not happen that way. It must be dealt with.

    My heart goes out to the couple  that’s still struggling  with the aftermath of infidelity. The person that is still blaming themselves, won’t forgive and on the verge of walking away. I know first hand the pain that runs deep  and it feels like their world is falling apart. But I also know that God is a Restorer . He is able to do what we can not do when we turn it over to him.  ( but we must give it to him ) When I minister to women I tell them ” Taking my husband back was the easy part, rebuilding the trust was so very hard.” There were times I wanted to run, hide and just not deal with all the pain.

    When you decide ( and it must be what you really want to do )  to move forward and rebuild your marriage, it will be a process. For the most part it will not be a cake walk. It will take time,dedication,honesty,forgiveness and lots of love.

    To help couples trying to rebuild their marriage after an affair or infidelity, grab my book, “So He Cheated, Now What?” It’s my personal testimony and action steps on how my husband and I overcame an affair in our marriage. An affair that resulted in a child being born . If God allowed us to go through this process and now my marriage is stronger than ever, he can do it for you, your family member, sister or friend. He can do it !

    My gift to you is a special “So He Cheated, Now What?” Christmas Combo which includes, the ebook, audiobook and bonus interview with my husband titled, “Why Did You Cheat? ” Grab it now for just $10.

     

    Help my husband and I reach the masses struggling with the aftermath of infidelity. If God did it for us he can do it for you. Right now you  may feel  alone but I want you  to know you  are NOT alone. Your situation is NOT hopeless.

    We understand. We care.I get it. I don’t say this because I read it. I lived it.

    If it hasn’t happened to you, I bet you know someone that’s dealing with it right now. Purchase this combo today for just $10 and share our victorious testimony with them.