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  • Pain to Purpose POWER Call with Nicole Cleveland

     

    Are you in Neutral?

    You may be at a standstill because of the “wrong “  that was done to you or you may just be existing. You’re here but not really here. It seems like you walk in a daily fog and continue to think this is a terrible nightmare. Let me help you change that.

    What I’ve Learned

    In the midst of GROWING through my pain, I’ve learned that I’m in control of no one but myself. Yes, things will happen; that’s just life. how we respond is our responsibility. How we move forward is up to us. If we never get an apology, we must keep moving. Let me tell you something. They are not worth you not fulfilling every assignment God has for you. They are not worth your tears. They are not worth you felling “less than”.

    Honey, YOU are FABULOUS !

    Pain to Purpose POWER Call with Nicole Cleveland

    Join me for 30 minutes of Jam Packed POWER.

    Are you still focused on what “they” did to you?

    Do you struggle with unforgiveness?

    Have you asked the Lord, “Why Me? “

    It’s time you get “unstuck” and move past your pain and  into your PURPOSE.

    Your pain is holding you hostage. You have imprisoned yourself to a life unfulfilled  and void of purpose. It’s time to change that. We are almost halfway through 2014.  You deserve to LIVE. Not just exist, but LIVE.

    I am an Author, Motivational Speaker and Sexual Abuse Survivor . I am dedicating 30 minutes of “POWER” to you because I think you’re fabulous and  deserve all that God wants you to have. Let me help you move past your pain and into your purpose.  This is a FREE call.

    What do you do?

    Glad you asked.   Just register ( below )  and call in.

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    See ya on the call !

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  • Bless a Couple Dealing With the Aftermath of Infidelity

    Turn on the news and I can promise you there will be a leading story on infidelity.

    Politicians, athletes, movie stars,church leaders, high profile individuals  and the list goes on and on.

    I cringe each time I read,see or here the reports. Infidelity ( or whatever you want to call it – cheating,having an affair, jump off, side piece etc… ) is not going away. It will continue to happen, just as we continue to need food to survive.We know it’s going on , but what are we doing to deal with the aftermath? It’s no longer something we don’t talk about. It must be dealt with. Especially for those that want to rebuild their marriage. You can not sweep it under the rug,wishing it will just go away.  It does not happen that way. It must be dealt with.

    My heart goes out to the couple  that’s still struggling  with the aftermath of infidelity. The person that is still blaming themselves, won’t forgive and on the verge of walking away. I know first hand the pain that runs deep  and it feels like their world is falling apart. But I also know that God is a Restorer . He is able to do what we can not do when we turn it over to him.  ( but we must give it to him ) When I minister to women I tell them ” Taking my husband back was the easy part, rebuilding the trust was so very hard.” There were times I wanted to run, hide and just not deal with all the pain.

    When you decide ( and it must be what you really want to do )  to move forward and rebuild your marriage, it will be a process. For the most part it will not be a cake walk. It will take time,dedication,honesty,forgiveness and lots of love.

    To help couples trying to rebuild their marriage after an affair or infidelity, grab my book, “So He Cheated, Now What?” It’s my personal testimony and action steps on how my husband and I overcame an affair in our marriage. An affair that resulted in a child being born . If God allowed us to go through this process and now my marriage is stronger than ever, he can do it for you, your family member, sister or friend. He can do it !

    My gift to you is a special “So He Cheated, Now What?” Christmas Combo which includes, the ebook, audiobook and bonus interview with my husband titled, “Why Did You Cheat? ” Grab it now for just $10.

     

    Help my husband and I reach the masses struggling with the aftermath of infidelity. If God did it for us he can do it for you. Right now you  may feel  alone but I want you  to know you  are NOT alone. Your situation is NOT hopeless.

    We understand. We care.I get it. I don’t say this because I read it. I lived it.

    If it hasn’t happened to you, I bet you know someone that’s dealing with it right now. Purchase this combo today for just $10 and share our victorious testimony with them.

     

     

     

  • Dear Nicole – “My Husband Won’t Talk About What Happened”

     
     
     
     

Have a question? Email nicoleconline@gmail.com
     
    Dear Nicole,
    My husband cheated, I forgave him but
    he won’t talk about what happened and why.
    He said, “just get over it”.I can’t just
    get over it. I’m still hurting.
                      Signed – Help!
     
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    Dear Help,
     
    I can’t tell you how many times I get this question from women
    still dealing with the aftermath of infidelity.Overcoming an affair is a process and
    dealing with the “Why?” is the most difficult part. Some get to this point and stay stuck.
     
    “he won’t talk about it”
    It is extremely hard for the man to open up not knowing what your reaction will be.
    One thing we do know is that it won’t be a fun or happy conversation, but it must be done to move forward.There will be tears and hopefully grace and forgiveness. Look at this as part of the healing process, which it is.
    When this conversation takes place, please don’t become defensive and argumentative because once you do, that
    may make your spouse shut down. At first, I became defensive but that was a train wreck. My husband shut down
    and it took days for him to open back up.
     
    Explain to your spouse how important this conversation is to you for the sake of your
    marriage and healing process. Pray about it and allow God to work it out.
    Once he does open up, I can almost bet you won’t like the reasons for the affair. But it is what it is. If you decided to
    forgive and move forward, do just that.