Author Archives: Nicole Cleveland

Express Your Feelings with Your Spouse

After the Affair Tip: Express Your Feelings with Your Spouse Just the other day I was feeling a certain way and trust me, the way was not good. It’s been 5 years since the affair and I won’t lie, I still have some down days. ( not many, but they do arise ) Days that… Continue Reading

Should We Forgive ?

Forgiveness is key after an affair in your relationship. It’s impossible to move on with unforgiveness. When we don’t forgive, we are setting ourselves up to be miserable. Oh, let me tell you, my initial reaction to the affair in my marriage had nothing to do with forgiveness. I was hurt, therefore I wanted him… Continue Reading

Keep Family & Friends Out of Your Marriage

Keep Family & Friends out of your Relationship   The decision to stay or walk away is a tough one. There are so many factors and elements to consider. Kids, investments, sex, money and most of all LOVE ! Do you still love him? That question should be based on how you feel and no… Continue Reading