Tag: Women

  • I Pray Your Today is Better than Yesterday

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    If you’ve read my book, “So He Hurt You, Now What?” – Messages of Hope for a Hurting Sister you’ll find that I start most messages out with, “I pray your today is better than yesterday.”

    So I start this post out with that same message.

    How was your yesterday? It may have been terrible and it may have been the worst day of your life. I sympathize with you, but I also know that it won’t last. Suffering is but for a moment ( it just feels like forever)

    I have good news!

    Your today can definitely be better if you want it to be. People, circumstances and life “interruptions” do not have to dictate how your day will be. Yes, we see what’s going on around us, but we choose to not let it overtake us. Don’t let it consume you.

    Step Back

    Have you prayed? Things you can’t control, our Father in heaven controls. Give it to him and keep it moving. Yes, it may hurt and it may even be directed at you. Don’t waste your time trying to prove your point or convince folks about something they’ve already made their mind up about. You’ll  get frustrated and they get to see you sweat. Don’t do it. Are they worth it?

    Give it to HIM and get on with your day. You have much to do!

    So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.
    I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. –
    Isaiah 41:10

    My Sister – I pray your today is better than yesterday.

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  • You are ENOUGH

     

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    I want you to know something.

    YOU ARE ENOUGH! 

    Your body is enough,your face is enough,your house ( apt ),booty and car are enough.

    Too often  we think because someone has moved on or hurt us, we must conform to make them stay or love us.

    No,No,No!

    If God created you in his image and he said that you are fearfully and wonderfully made,who are you to fix or re-create what he said was good. ( Genesis 1:31 )

    The rejection of man is just a re-direction of God. It was not good for you. He saw that and because you wouldn’t do anything about it, he did. He loves us that much. It’s not rejection, it’s just a shift move. God is getting you ready for the real deal.

    Below are 3 Tips that will help you

    1. Get in the word of God like never before.

    • Ask him to give you understanding
    • Ask him how to apply what you read to your life
    • Just listen

    2. Surround yourself with positive people

    • Delete negative people from your life right now ( hopefully forever, but right now is critical )
    • Ask yourself, “Are they helping or hindering?”
    • Stay around people that love you and will make you laugh ( laughter cures many things )

    3. Do YOU

    • You’ve done it for everybody else, now do it for you ( not the vine )
    • Find something you are passionate about and start working your passion
    • Take a break and breathe again. Enjoy the moment

    Honey, you are FABULOUS  and you are ENOUGH!

     

    Stay Blessed,

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  • Pain to Purpose POWER Call with Nicole Cleveland

     

    Are you in Neutral?

    You may be at a standstill because of the “wrong “  that was done to you or you may just be existing. You’re here but not really here. It seems like you walk in a daily fog and continue to think this is a terrible nightmare. Let me help you change that.

    What I’ve Learned

    In the midst of GROWING through my pain, I’ve learned that I’m in control of no one but myself. Yes, things will happen; that’s just life. how we respond is our responsibility. How we move forward is up to us. If we never get an apology, we must keep moving. Let me tell you something. They are not worth you not fulfilling every assignment God has for you. They are not worth your tears. They are not worth you felling “less than”.

    Honey, YOU are FABULOUS !

    Pain to Purpose POWER Call with Nicole Cleveland

    Join me for 30 minutes of Jam Packed POWER.

    Are you still focused on what “they” did to you?

    Do you struggle with unforgiveness?

    Have you asked the Lord, “Why Me? “

    It’s time you get “unstuck” and move past your pain and  into your PURPOSE.

    Your pain is holding you hostage. You have imprisoned yourself to a life unfulfilled  and void of purpose. It’s time to change that. We are almost halfway through 2014.  You deserve to LIVE. Not just exist, but LIVE.

    I am an Author, Motivational Speaker and Sexual Abuse Survivor . I am dedicating 30 minutes of “POWER” to you because I think you’re fabulous and  deserve all that God wants you to have. Let me help you move past your pain and into your purpose.  This is a FREE call.

    What do you do?

    Glad you asked.   Just register ( below )  and call in.

    ( Once you register, you’ll receive the dial in instructions )

    See ya on the call !

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