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  • Founders of DayStar TV deal with Infidelity

    Infidelity is not uncommon, it happens everyday. Right now, someone has just discovered that their spouse has
    been cheating.Their world is about to be turned upside down.

    On the November 30th airing of “Celebration” with Daystar TV founders Marc & Joni Lamb, adultery and overcoming an affair was the topic. You see the Lamb’s announced that their marriage was recovering from an affair.Why it happened and who it happened with is irrelevant. My heart goes out to the Lambs and every couple that is dealing with adultery.

    Listening to Joni talk I felt her pain (and her shame).You just want to run to the nearest rock and hope that
    it is big enough to hide under. But that doesn’t solve anything.

    From reading the different posts regarding the affair, it seems like everyone has an expert opinion and has sent Marc to hell a few times.

    God is a forgiving God and if Joni made the decision to stay and rebuild their marriage, then more power to
    her.It’s not any of our business.

    God Bless Marc & Joni Lamb.  They have a platform that can reach the masses. Together we all can tell our stories and let the world know that God can heal and restore marriages, even after an affair.He did it for me and that is why I wrote the book “So he Cheated, Now What?”, my personal story of overcoming an affair in my marriage. And he has done it for Marc & Joni Lamb,founders of Daystar Television. Go God!

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  • Deal With It !

    Relationship crisis

     

    That seems a bit harsh, huh?
    I’m really not that insensitive.
    Almost everyday I hear from women that are dealing with the reality of a cheating spouse.

    I understand that it seems like a terrible nightmare and you just want to WAKE UP!
    The pain seems unreal and panic and anxiety have moved in.

    The cheating spouse says ” Get Over It, what’s done is done, let’s just move on.”  Trust me, it’s not that easy. The who,what,why’s and when’s seem to chase you day and night.

    You have unanswered questions. You just can’t ” GET OVER IT! “

    Too often, we want to sweep things under the rug and think they will go away.We don’t want to face the truth or talk about things that will upset us.

    Please keep this in mind – Whatever you don’t deal with , will deal with you. In one way or another, it will resurface.I say put all the cards on the table. Talk about what happened and why it happened. That is the only way to move forward.

    Don’t act like it never happened. How can you ever be healed?
    Just deal with it and let the healing begin. ( it may sting at first, but the sting will go away )

    Praying for you !

     

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