He Cheated, So Now What ??

This weekend I had the privilege of going to see Why Did I Get Married Too by Tyler Perry. In the movie ” Pat” ( Janet Jackson ) was a successful author of the book, ” He Cheated, So Now What?” In reality a very similar title, ” So He Cheated, Now What?” is written… Continue Reading

Express Your Feelings with Your Spouse

After the Affair Tip: Express Your Feelings with Your Spouse Just the other day I was feeling a certain way and trust me, the way was not good. It’s been 5 years since the affair and I won’t lie, I still have some down days. ( not many, but they do arise ) Days that… Continue Reading

Should We Forgive ?

Forgiveness is key after an affair in your relationship. It’s impossible to move on with unforgiveness. When we don’t forgive, we are setting ourselves up to be miserable. Oh, let me tell you, my initial reaction to the affair in my marriage had nothing to do with forgiveness. I was hurt, therefore I wanted him… Continue Reading